How to know if my partner is possessive

Lady steel

Hello, I think my husband is possessive and I would like not to be so, I don’t even know how to tell them I love him but sometimes I think this that he is an insecure man, aunk sometimes I want to put everything aside and leave and leave him because it hurts me I have already told him to try to change but he is an ordinary macho as I want him to change and be a sensible romantic man and not to
I instigated with his absurd jealousy because with his words he only hurts me because he works because he has never let me work but when we argue he emphasizes that I do not work that the one who carries everything in the house is him and believe me it makes me feel very bad and when I Anger tells me that he loves me that we continue together and well I love him and I fall back but I don’t know what to do

gladys yajaira guarin torres

All this has happened to me for four years and it has gotten out of hand, sometimes I don’t know what to do. I already feel sick the same way that he controls me
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Jose Dario

excellent topic about the possessive couple, it is a very important topic especially when choosing a future wife or husband.

kadisha

my husband is Honduran and very macho and jealous, but faithful. We have two little girls and he is very possessive and thinks I have slept with other men. He has believed that I am sleeping with other men for nine years and that is why he verbally abuses me. I cannot separate because they would take my daughters from me since, due to my illness, they took two children that I had with him many years ago. He threatens to tell me that he will tell the government that I am not taking my medication if I separate. He says that he wants to go to the United States but that he cannot leave me alone with the girls because of my illness. and in part has reason. For this reason, because we cannot separate, I would like to know how I can make him change even a little, so that our relationship is as positive as possible. I have started to contact my sister, but she is not a very good person to say and I cannot be friends with her. my family does not want to know anything about him



Lady steel

There is a friend, the same thing happens to me, he tells me that when I worked I lived with my co-workers, that if a neighbor looked at me, it’s because I already lived with him, it’s a terrible friend.

alejandro gomez hermida

They know they should give a good advice to couples not to make one person go to another to give good use of this material so that couples can go out without problems and not give them that kick of running away

alejandro gomez hermida

This page has caused me the separation of my children and wife leading the case that my wife will take her advice to flee my home with my children after 15 years of living with me I will take this to any entity to report them for negative advice to make families separate



katia martines

Well, you were with the wrong person, my friend, because if the person loves you, they will try to modify their way of being a little. you go

graciela

one becomes possessive after the infidelity of his spouse



Erick torres

That is not the best option woman that you can take care of it so much that it does not do the same to you again

Erika

Hello … I tell you the story of my relationship 11 months ago I started dating a boy but at the beginning he was very attentive to me, we did not see each other or talk very often …… later I found out that he had seen each other and He had kissed with his previous ex-girlfriend, I tried to break up with him for that reason but he told me that it was a mistake and that he regrets so continue with him .. but as a result of that he became very suffocating he wanted to spend if possible every day with me and When he was with me, he took my cell phone, he saw my photos and entered my social networks but not my messages, in addition to staying late with me when he arrived at his house he made a video call, it began to become monotonous, he felt resentment towards He for betrayal and I started chatting with an ex from a long time ago in a confident way I did it as revenge but I never cheated on him … from that point on my boyfriend controls me a lot with whom I go out, who writes to whom I write, who calls me and who do I call … from h echo does not even go out with friends like a normal boy would. He calls me when I go to work, when I’m at work and when I go home … and he tries to overprotect me too much, it makes me feel bad because it’s like I can’t take care of myself … I don’t know what to do … ??

light yanira blond quitian

I have someone who wants to control me all the time and suffocates me with his way of being with me …. I distance my family from him because of his possession towards me and his as well

Juan Carlos

Hello everyone. I came this way to find a solution to my case, I am a little frustrated because I am in a relationship that is not progressing. We have been together for 5 years and on the eve of becoming independent, I feel that out of love I have lost many important things that cannot be lost. I do not have a circle of friends with which to disconnect, she has me for and for her. Yesterday was the company dinner for my work and I felt that I had to be justifying, when I only wanted to have a good time with my colleagues, a few years ago I was studying a radio course and I also chose to delete myself since there were girls and that. She could not bear it, on one occasion she attacked me which she regrets all her life but I have already forgotten that, what hurts me the most is seeing this relationship rot day after day. I am very overwhelmed because I love her very much but I am living a torture. We didn’t spend 4 days without arguing, I don’t know what to do …

Anonymous

Hello. My girlfriend is very possessive and obsessive. she wants me to treat her as if she were her servant. 8 months ago we dated. I invited her to live in my house. travel with her and we rent an apartment so she can finish her degree. I can’t get a job. She made me see things differently at first. he helped me with my personal things by giving me advice. I came to feel the opposite over time. that I don’t deserve anything. She complains about everything. Of what I do, of what I do not do. of if I go out where I go. that if there are girls in the gym. if I’m going to watch girls. It is always wrong, he complains that everything hurts. and blames me for everything. He doesn’t listen to me, he demands that I pay attention to pathetic details that haunt his imagination. she always asks me if I love her. says I don’t want her. Almost 85 percent of the things I do are by and for her. and he ends up pointing out that I did something wrong. TOTAL ungratefulness. he wants him to be alone with his family. and it takes me away from my friends and my family. He doesn’t want me to see my son. I haven’t seen it in a while. he does not care. He does not care what I want, what I think or what I feel. I am a total idiot ???. I do not know what to do. I’m jealous of even the actresses on TV. We haven’t understood each other for a while. I told her to get help but she doesn’t want to.
He has made fun of me in a way wanting to disqualify me completely. repeatedly. and wants a family wants a child.
I feel like an asshole following her. I don’t think he doesn’t give a damn about me.
he only complains.
she worries if I’m with her or if I’m going out there. help.
above it is a very liar.
help……..



Anonymous

Does she not want you to see your child or do you use her as an excuse not to? Typical coward who gets married and leaves the children lying around. If you are so bad, if it makes you feel so bad, why are you with her? If she asks you if you love her, it will be that she does not feel your supposed love … and by how you talk about her, it shows that nothing is love. For the sake of you, of her, of your son that you already have and the one that she asks of you, she hoped you had the bones to end your unhappy relationship.

kadisha

typical of an irresponsible person: letting yourself be carried away by others and blaming them for your unhappiness. COWARD!!!

Maria

It is very similar to how you feel about my relationship. ,, Only that we already have the son … I think that when you begin to doubt it is because there is no longer or there never was love. You can not blame only the other, the bad (and good) relationships are of a 2. Trust in the partner cannot be demanded, the other is not always a compulsive controller, maybe at some point you were unfair in the relationship and although it was try to move on there are things that have no turning back. In my case my partner was unfaithful, not just once (I am also responsible for letting it pass) and that generated a terrible mistrust, insecurity, it really destroys your self-esteem. and I had behaviors that I regret to control, persecute etc … that I had never had with other couples even at the beginning of the relationship … the other way around at the beginning I was super possessive and absorbing … he was waiting for me in the door of my house when leaving work, he would call me and get angry if I did not attend, I got to shake once because according to him I liked one of his friends, we always had to get together with his friends or choose activities that he liked , if she wanted to do something alone she would get in a bad mood or …