Pedro
We have been married for 16 years. We have always fantasized about living something liberal. We made a profile on a liberal page and we were with a “masseur” making clear the limits. That was a failure because I did not know that I had reached a point. The fact is that we can be morbid. We have been nudism for years and we don’t know how to take that damn step that many couples have taken. All the best
Esmerlyn
Hello, I met a young man three months ago, he lives in another country, but he came to my country to see me, everything was fantastic, after two months of leaving, he changed a lot with me because one day his cell phone was downloaded and I did not talk to him for many hours and I complained to him, which I shouldn’t have done, after there he told me that he was not the type of man who said everything he did, we even talked as before and he is no longer the same affectionate, I am very attached and jealous , this hurts our relationship, but I am willing to give in on this part, can you help me
Fran
9 months ago I started with my girlfriend, and until a week ago we were a formal couple. The thing is, she’s never been like that, and I understand her, she’s always been freer, and last Wednesday we sat down to talk and she told me she wanted a liberal relationship. At first the idea struck me, since I had never lived with one, but I ended up accepting and little by little I adapt to it. On the sexual issue, the philosophy is that we are not going to look for anything, that it did arise, and we do not have to tell each other anything. The issue is that she is now having a relationship with a friend of hers, how would that be seen in a relationship of this type? Another question I had is that yesterday, when I was leaving class, I stopped by my house to pick up something that had been left in his, but before I went to a friend’s house to pick up something. On the way back, I went to go to his house to give him this, I knew that he had met a boy (if it is relevant, he is a friend with whom he was on a roll before he was with me), but I thought that at the time that I went and would have left, it was not like that. Arriving at their house, I saw them leave the roof (it has a storage room upstairs) and of course, I knew what happened, apart from seeing kissing and such. Certainly, it impacted me, it made me a bit upset, since I’m still in the adaptation phase, but hey, what I did was go home. Once there, I started to think, and I saw the need to go talk to her, not badly, but so she could see that I am adapting, and that I am getting better, I was going with good faith, my intentions were good and It seemed like a good idea to me. So I went and talked to her, I told her what I saw, and she misunderstood me, she thought I was spying on her, because it turns out that just before he had left his house, I didn’t even see him and now he’s super angry with me … The questions They are: Can there be a roll with a person in a liberal relationship with another, when what we agreed to were one-night stands? Was I wrong to go talk to her? Thanks in advance.
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Débora De Sá Tavares
Hello Fran, a liberal relationship implies the absence of exclusivity and commitment, therefore in this type of relationship there may be a roll with one or more people at the same time. If you really love this girl and you want her for something formal, my suggestion is that you end this relationship, because being a liberal will hurt you a lot. The key for this type of relationship to work is that both parties are comfortable and in accordance with those types of freedoms, and from what it seems you are not. Greetings
Tommy
Hello. We are a couple and we have to get between liberal and horns at first sight from her. We understand liberally those people who agree to be with another person. Either trio or two couples or in groups. But always the two of you together. I advise you to do the same on your own, meet with girls so that the balance is leveled.
Débora De Sá Tavares
Hello Carmen, the only advice I can give you is not easy, nor does it go the easy way: if you really want to get him out of your life, look for another job, quit the one you have and stop seeing him. It is simply a matter of willpower (I am not saying it is simple) but when a relationship hurts us, it is up to us to end it. If you can’t alone, I recommend that you seek the help of a therapist. Cheers and hope I helped.
Carmen
Hello, I am writing to you to help me, I have a relationship that I do not know what to call it, I am with a 68-year-old man, I am 52, we lived together for almost 4 and a half years, he had a relationship with a woman who has never loved him as a man. 10 years in that dilemma, he has agreed to live with her so she has had 2 husbands of accent and he has accepted it.At first when I started with him he did not know in himself how the matter was because he told me that his ex-wife He had introduced her to her and he was helping her because the father of her 2 children had died when they were children, the question is that it was because of her divorce, she disappeared from our lives for 2 years because she fought with him. very happy until he appeared again and they have made my life in squares since they leave him pleasing her in everything and having her husband because she tells whoever does not get involved that he is her friend, I am stuck in that triangle no longer What to do because he tells me that he loves me and that he is not going to tell me to leave In his life because I am a good woman and I do not deserve it, I tell him if it is like that because he does what is wrong, the truth I do not understand. To finish scrubbing he is my boss so I have to see him every day. I try to quit and I always fall. We always fight because I realize when she attends to her, she is so shameless. I have asked God so much to remove it from my mind and nothing happens. I have been in this dilemma for a year and a half. One thing I discovered them at home bathing, I heard them talking, I was out of the house, it was there that I realized that they were going to bed, imagine how horrible it was for me, I know that psychologically it has me wrong, I want to get out of this and I don’t know how much more. What do I do? What do you advise me?