If you are reading this it is because it has surely happened to you that, on some occasion, for example, you have gone out for a drink with your friends, you have seen a girl who has caught your attention and you would have liked to meet her. However, at the moment of truth, you have not been confident enough to approach her and meet her for fear that she will reject you or for making a fool of yourself in front of many people.
Seducing a woman you don’t know at all can be quite difficult, especially if you don’t know what to do to get closer to that person. That is why, in this oneHOWTO article, we give you some clues about how to flirt with a girl you don’t know. With these tricks she will fall at your feet.
Try to understand a woman
This task can be quite difficult since, in the end, each person is different. However, there are some guidelines within female thinking that will help you get closer to the girl who has caught your attention. Therefore, if you want that person to also notice you, you must take these into account aspects to be successful in your first impression:
- In general, women, even if they do not want a long-term relationship or commit to someone, are not interested in those men who only look to her for a night of sex. Even if they’re looking for something casual, treating her like a sex object won’t help you flirt with an unfamiliar girl.
- Nor are they attracted to the typical guy who is “macho” or who looks too arrogant. If you try to get close like this, not only will you not be able to seduce her, but you will surely get a very negative response.
- Finally, it is important that if you manage to have a first conversation, they feel heard and notice that you are a sensitive person. In this way, he will feel more comfortable with you and you will probably attract him because of your personality.
Practice your first conversation before approaching her
If you are at an event or a pub having a drink and you have seen a woman that interests you, it is recommended that you take a few minutes in front of the bathroom mirror of the place to think about how you are going to approach her and get to have a first conversation. To do this, you can follow these tips:
- Find the right time: If she is at the bar of the pub you can buy her a drink or, for example, if you are in a library you can ask her if she knows where to find a certain book.
- Be polite: It is more advisable that during the conversation do not say bad words, since it will move away from you.
- Treat her with respect: Avoid making your first words a comment about their body or physique. Look at how she is dressed and if, for example, she wears the logo of a series or a musical group on her shirt, you can ask her if she is a fan.
- If you feel uncomfortable, to: If you see that she has no interest in having a conversation with you or feels uncomfortable, you better let him be.
Act safely
Women are always more interested in a self-confident man and that he seems to have no doubt about himself. It is important that when you flirt with a girl without knowing her, you approach without showing any kind of doubt, as if you knew exactly what you are doing. On the other hand, if you allow yourself to be carried away by bad experiences from the past or you are hesitant, the most likely thing is that that person will reject you.
Don’t let your nerves make you miss an opportunity to meet someone. You must ask yourself “what can I lose if he rejects me?” The answer is nothing. However, if you allow yourself to be carried away by your fears, you will be losing knowing that girl you like or another person on another occasion.
Have an interesting conversation
You have already managed to get close to her and show her interest in spending time with you. Now, if you want to get a flirt with that woman, you should try to make the conversation fun and interesting. Also, the more interest and curiosity you feel about her, the more comfortable she will be with you.
Try to talk about her, about his hobbies, interests, if he likes to go to the movies, if he goes frequently to the gym. This will be the best way for you to find a common theme so that the talk will last longer. You should also try that, when she asks you something, you do not answer briefly, but try to tell you interesting facts and anecdotes or something funny about you.
Be mindful of body language
Many times our body and movements say more than our words. Therefore, it is important that you watch your body language and observe that of the girl you want to flirt with. It is likely that, if you know how to interpret him, you can intuit if he has any interest in you, or on the contrary, he wants to stop talking to you. See if it meets any of these guidelines on body language:
- If he keeps eye contact with you. When a girl looks at you quite often and also does not look away, it is probably because she is attracted to you and is sure she wants to start a conversation with you.
- Another gesture that indicates interest is if he smiles at you quite often.
- She is also likely to like you, if she is attentive to the conversation. On the contrary, if he is easily distracted it is because he wants to finish this talk.
- Other body gestures such as not crossing your legs or arms, are telling you that she is attentive to what you say, since crossing them is usually a sign of disinterest, rejection or protection.
Get her phone number and ask her for an appointment
If the conversation has gone well and she has seemed interested in you, it will be time to get her number to be able to meet her another time. If she accepts and you exchange phones, it is recommended that you call or send her an SMS between one and two days after meeting you to ask for an appointment, since if not she will think that you did not have much interest in having one with her.
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