Have you ever heard the expression “make a French” and don’t know what it means? Well, in this oneHOWTO article we are going to help you discover what this term means in the sexual plane and what are the keys that must be taken into account to practice it and enjoy it to the fullest. Although a priori It may seem otherwise, making a French is the name that was formerly given to oral sex, but why was this nickname given to this sexual practice? We will tell you in detail in the following lines, so do not stop reading if you want to discover what is to do a French and how to do it. We reveal all the aspects that are important for you to enjoy the best oral sex with your partner.
What do we mean when we talk about making French sexually? Although it may sound like something really special or special, the truth is that it is nothing new, as it simply refers to the practice of oral sex, a type of sex with which it is intended that the person receiving it reaches an incredible orgasm through the sensations produced by caresses with the mouth, tongue and lips on their genitals.
And why is oral sex called “making a French”?
To answer this question, we must go back to the 19th century, at the time when the first brothels began to emerge in countries such as France, Italy or Germany. There, the upper middle class enjoyed luxuries such as high-end cars, haute couture, elegant jewelry, etc., but also other services that they demanded, such as prostitution. It was just at this time that the first brothels were created and not only for men, but also for women.
Within this world of elegance and sophistication, more “sophisticated” and “fine” names were also given to the different sexual practices. Oral sex was baptized with the expression of “make a French” and anal sex with that of “making a Greek”. This last assignment was because back then anal sex was believed to have been invented in Ancient Greece, a civilization in which homosexual intercourse was prevalent.
If you want delight your partner with a good French and to achieve an incredible orgasm, take note of the following tips. We show you what are the keys that you should take into account when offering a good dose of oral sex to your partner.
Tips for having a good blowjob
- It starts softlyDon’t go straight to the peak of pleasure. Take your time to first kiss his body, caress him and give the situation a bit of suspense so that when you get to stimulate his penis he will be much more excited.
- Don’t just focus on the penis: Although most of the time you spend it orally stimulating the penis, it is important that you do not limit yourself to it. Kiss, caress with your tongue and touch areas such as the testicles, the perineum or the groin so that it burns with pleasure.
- It also stimulates the glans: The glans is the tip of the penis and if you stimulate this area with your tongue while you masturbate it, you will get your boy to experience great pleasurable sensations.
- Vary the pace: alternate and change the rhythm and intensity of the movements. Make it soft, then intense, lick only half of the penis, then put everything in your mouth, combine caresses with kisses and licks …, and you will see how much greater enjoyment and you do not get so tired.
- Look him in the eye: If you dare, feel free to maintain eye contact with your guy while you perform oral sex on them. Usually this turns men on a lot and will also give you clues as to whether what you are doing to him is liking him and is generating him pleasure.
- Don’t be afraid to experiment, show yourself safe and let him see that you enjoy while doing oral sex.
Tips for a good cunnilingus
- Avoid the rush: First, spend a few minutes stroking and kissing other areas of her body, such as her neck, breasts, abdomen, crotch, etc. Do it gently and gradually increase the intensity of the kisses and caresses.
- Do not directly stimulate the clitoris: Keep in mind that the clitoris is the most sensitive and delicate point of the woman’s body. The best thing is that you first stimulate her vagina with your hands so that she becomes aroused little by little and then give way to erotic licking in the crotch, the mons pubis, the vaginal lips …, until finally reaching the clitoris.
- Vary the movements with your tongue: do not repeat yourself excessively and move your tongue in a different way and gradually increasing the speed and pressure. You can move it from side to side, up and down, draw circles, etc.
- Combine oral and manual stimulation: During oral sex, you can also enhance her pleasure by inserting one or two fingers into her vagina. Do it when you see that she is very aroused and you will see how you get her to experience an incredible orgasm.
- Take a look at his body: the female body will tell you if what you are doing is pleasing her and is giving her pleasure. In addition to being highly lubricated, you can see how her back arches, making it much easier for you to access her intimate area, how she begins to have muscle spasms and how her breathing accelerates.
- Be delicate at all times: To do a good cunnilingus it is essential to maintain the delicacy from the beginning to the end. Think that the vagina and the clitoris are extremely sensitive and any more abrupt or intense movement of the account can end up causing discomfort to the woman and ruin all the excitement and enjoyment of the moment.
Although we can always resort to positions for oral sex more classic like 69, there is a wide variety of positions that we can put into practice to give a different twist to our sexual encounters and discover new sensations through oral stimulation.
Here are the best positions to receive oral sex for men and women:
- For men: the couch, the passionate dreamer, the hottie, the staircase or the 12.
- For the women: the 68, the butterfly kiss, the doggy position, the cat’s tongue, the oral train or the love.
If you want to know how to do each of these positions with your partner and how to intensify your pleasure, discover all the details in the articles Positions to receive oral sex – men and Positions to receive oral sex – women.